June 1, 2013
At Caitlin and Trevor’s wedding. So lovely.  (at Barndiva)

At Caitlin and Trevor’s wedding. So lovely. (at Barndiva)

May 30, 2013
Double dose.  (at Home)

Double dose. (at Home)

May 30, 2013
Daily dose of cuteness.  (at Home)

Daily dose of cuteness. (at Home)

May 28, 2013
Profile shot (at Home)

Profile shot (at Home)

May 27, 2013
That’s my handsome boy.  (at Home)

That’s my handsome boy. (at Home)

May 24, 2013
Develop

Too quickly going from idea to action. Daily, do something for which there is not only no immediate reward—but also no meaningfully discernible reward, i.e., 1 push up, 1 shovelful of dirt, 1 brick laid in a wall, or 1 tile on a new path.

Bricks, calories, lbs. lost, exercise, money raised/earned, Likes, friends, notifications, emails, all keeping score, all tracking progress. Towards what? 

Short attention span. Attention deficit disorder.

Immediate gratification is like heroin, like “The Game” in TNG.

Maybe the track yourself, track your progress mentality is wrong. You can’t “level up” in real life. Maybe instead become comfortable with something even beyond delayed gratification. Maybe that is just another drug, another hit, another way to feed that which can never be satisfied. Maybe it’s about accepting that there is no reward. 

Just do those things that are good, that help, that improve your capacity for good and to help. 

I don’t know.

May 24, 2013
Morning walk. May 24, 2013. (at Home)

Morning walk. May 24, 2013. (at Home)

May 23, 2013
Brothers (at Home)

Brothers (at Home)

May 20, 2013
LA, I don’t love you. But you make some good food sometimes.  (at Father’s Office)

LA, I don’t love you. But you make some good food sometimes. (at Father’s Office)

May 19, 2013
Math Lurnin

For a very long time, we have made math teachers out of people who understand math really well. But understanding math and explaining math are two very different things. I’d like to see us move to the idea that the ability to explain math is more important than the ability to understand math for our math teachers. This is a controversial idea for many. I can hear every person ask the extreme question. “Are you saying that it isn’t important to understand what you are teaching?! 

No. I am not saying that.

This is a video game character window. 

In this window, you can assign points to the different abilities of your character. You can say, give more points to Strength or more to Agility. And depending on what type of character you have or what role you want to play in the game, you will customize your character by assigning points to the appropriate ability.

This is all I’m talking about. 

For many decades and probably even centuries, when selecting teachers, we’ve given all of our character points to the “Understand Math” ability. We’ve basically ignored the “Explain Math” ability.

I’d like us to spend a few points on the ability that has to do with explaining. Not all the points. Not even most of the points. How about we start with just some of the points. 

To my way of thinking, if you had 100 points to spend, I’d give about 65 or 70 to understanding. With the other 30-35 going to explaining. But today we don’t even ensure that our math teachers have any ability to teach. They are almost exclusively selected for understanding.

We hope that those who select the career have an innate ability.

We hope that we get lucky to have people who choose the career because they already know how to explain stuff and want to explain math. 

But we don’t make sure. We only make sure they know the stuff. We are hoping they know how to explain it.

And that’s my complaint. 

So can I get a few points in the Explain Math ability? Or at least in Agility?

May 16, 2013
My boys rule.

My boys rule.

May 16, 2013
Confused by the slogan. But delicious root beer. (at Mack’s Smoked BBQ)

Confused by the slogan. But delicious root beer. (at Mack’s Smoked BBQ)

May 14, 2013
Girl on Fire (ft. Sweet Brown) #ihadto

This girl is on….FAHRE!!

May 12, 2013
I love Sunday morning.  (at Home)

I love Sunday morning. (at Home)

May 5, 2013
All together now, “awwwww…..” (at Home)

All together now, “awwwww…..” (at Home)